ct, nak minta opinion. u tinggal comment kat chat box i n delete yg ne if u takut hubby u tanya.
ada org nak masuk merisik n tunang sue end of this year...
how do u know that in future u will not find someone else yg maybe ur mr right?
i da wat solat istikarah, tapi tak de petunjuk. n i da penah wat mcm u wat gak, tinggalkan dia terkontang kanting 1 months ++ , and he still wait for me..
but i dunno whether i truly love him or not. maybe syg, more macam kawan gitu :((( dia sangat baik la.. i dunno if i leave him i can find someone as good and kind as him..
tapi i dunno gak if in future mr right will come.. owh i sound really selfish.
but i have heard someone said it is better to be with someone that love u than to be with someone u love although it might sound selfish but it is the best.
actually i always think that i still have feelings to my first love yg da break 3thn ++ lepas.. lama gila da break, tapi tak mudah nak lupa that's why i feel takut? unsure? tatau dapat bahagia ke tak if i dun love him as much as i love my first bf.
bila da tunang i mesti terikat. takkan senang2 nak break. n org takkan kacau da. n of coz la nak jaga nama family. tu i ragu2 nak tunang ke tak.
u penah tak dengar org kata kita kene accept org yg 1st masuk merisik kita? ada dlm agama ke? rasa macam penah baca di mana2..
u made me realised, yang i can still love him after kawin. kire tak semestinya skrg tak cinta, after kawin pun tetap tak cinta. i terlupa tentang tu.
n terlupa gak, cinta before kawin bukan cinta abadi..cinta after kawin yang sebenarnye ye.. cinta yg dapat pahala, n yg mulia di sisi Allah kan.
btl tu, if we love a man more than he love us, he can easily take things for granted. but we as women, ada lower probability gi cari laki lain ke, tak jaga kebajikan dia ke after kawin. ppuan pun hati cepat lembut, who knows after kawin, diselebungi kasih sayang, i love him pastu...
thanks siti! i know ur advice salu yg paling best T__T
wa menarik lah discussion korang nih and sue sowy i nyebok ek siap baca kat blog sue lagi ape kate titut...
but i do agree with both sue and titut said... wat sue said base on orang yang dalam situasi not sure dan belom kawin dan titut pulak base on her own experience...
as for me (hehhe orang tak tanye pon kan) macam titut kate kawin is all about tanggungjawab dan pengorbanan then baru LOVE. but above of all wajib agama.. anything problem bungkus cantek2 serahkan pada Allah.
sebelom di ikat pertunangan sue fight dengan ur own feeling tapi bile dah ikat nanti sue kena lebih kuat lagi sebab dalam tempoh bertunang tu kite akan berlawan dengan persekitaran kite pulak... believe it or not time dah bertunang tu lah sebuk orang tu orang ni suka kat kite.. masa ni baru betol-betol nguji kite! parents or family both side insyaAllah dah tak banyak hal sangat sebab diorang dah release masa sue bertunang.nanti dah bertunang sue kena minta nasehat lain pulak tau kat titut... ada cabaran lain pulak time tu.. huhuhu
tak semua orang kawin dengan their true love... sebab kawin is to complete each other. mungkin kite prefer lover yang banyak persamaan dengan kite tapi kawen nanti kite perlukan husband yang ada apa yang kite takdek...
no worries sue cause rite now sue is just going through same phase as me and titut been through before and everything gonna be ok.
titut ko men futsal kat ner ek? cam menarik jer ...
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ada org nak masuk merisik n tunang sue end of this year...
how do u know that in future u will not find someone else yg maybe ur mr right?
i da wat solat istikarah, tapi tak de petunjuk. n i da penah wat mcm u wat gak, tinggalkan dia terkontang kanting 1 months ++ , and he still wait for me..
but i dunno whether i truly love him or not. maybe syg, more macam kawan gitu :((( dia sangat baik la.. i dunno if i leave him i can find someone as good and kind as him..
tapi i dunno gak if in future mr right will come.. owh i sound really selfish.
but i have heard someone said it is better to be with someone that love u than to be with someone u love although it might sound selfish but it is the best.
yeah it really helps me a lot.
actually i always think that i still have feelings to my first love yg da break 3thn ++ lepas.. lama gila da break, tapi tak mudah nak lupa
that's why i feel takut? unsure? tatau dapat bahagia ke tak if i dun love him as much as i love my first bf.
bila da tunang i mesti terikat. takkan senang2 nak break. n org takkan kacau da. n of coz la nak jaga nama family. tu i ragu2 nak tunang ke tak.
u penah tak dengar org kata kita kene accept org yg 1st masuk merisik kita? ada dlm agama ke?
rasa macam penah baca di mana2..
u made me realised, yang i can still love him after kawin. kire tak semestinya skrg tak cinta, after kawin pun tetap tak cinta. i terlupa tentang tu.
n terlupa gak, cinta before kawin bukan cinta abadi..cinta after kawin yang sebenarnye ye..
cinta yg dapat pahala, n yg mulia di sisi Allah kan.
btl tu, if we love a man more than he love us, he can easily take things for granted. but we as women, ada lower probability gi cari laki lain ke, tak jaga kebajikan dia ke after kawin. ppuan pun hati cepat lembut, who knows after kawin, diselebungi kasih sayang, i love him pastu...
thanks siti! i know ur advice salu yg paling best T__T
but i do agree with both sue and titut said... wat sue said base on orang yang dalam situasi not sure dan belom kawin dan titut pulak base on her own experience...
as for me (hehhe orang tak tanye pon kan) macam titut kate kawin is all about tanggungjawab dan pengorbanan then baru LOVE. but above of all wajib agama.. anything problem bungkus cantek2 serahkan pada Allah.
sebelom di ikat pertunangan sue fight dengan ur own feeling tapi bile dah ikat nanti sue kena lebih kuat lagi sebab dalam tempoh bertunang tu kite akan berlawan dengan persekitaran kite pulak... believe it or not time dah bertunang tu lah sebuk orang tu orang ni suka kat kite.. masa ni baru betol-betol nguji kite! parents or family both side insyaAllah dah tak banyak hal sangat sebab diorang dah release masa sue bertunang.nanti dah bertunang sue kena minta nasehat lain pulak tau kat titut... ada cabaran lain pulak time tu.. huhuhu
tak semua orang kawin dengan their true love... sebab kawin is to complete each other. mungkin kite prefer lover yang banyak persamaan dengan kite tapi kawen nanti kite perlukan husband yang ada apa yang kite takdek...
no worries sue cause rite now sue is just going through same phase as me and titut been through before and everything gonna be ok.
titut ko men futsal kat ner ek? cam menarik jer ...