ct, nak minta opinion. u tinggal comment kat chat box i n delete yg ne if u takut hubby u tanya.
ada org nak masuk merisik n tunang sue end of this year...
how do u know that in future u will not find someone else yg maybe ur mr right?
i da wat solat istikarah, tapi tak de petunjuk. n i da penah wat mcm u wat gak, tinggalkan dia terkontang kanting 1 months ++ , and he still wait for me..
but i dunno whether i truly love him or not. maybe syg, more macam kawan gitu :((( dia sangat baik la.. i dunno if i leave him i can find someone as good and kind as him..
tapi i dunno gak if in future mr right will come.. owh i sound really selfish.
but i have heard someone said it is better to be with someone that love u than to be with someone u love although it might sound selfish but it is the best.
actually i always think that i still have feelings to my first love yg da break 3thn ++ lepas.. lama gila da break, tapi tak mudah nak lupa that's why i feel takut? unsure? tatau dapat bahagia ke tak if i dun love him as much as i love my first bf.
bila da tunang i mesti terikat. takkan senang2 nak break. n org takkan kacau da. n of coz la nak jaga nama family. tu i ragu2 nak tunang ke tak.
u penah tak dengar org kata kita kene accept org yg 1st masuk merisik kita? ada dlm agama ke? rasa macam penah baca di mana2..
u made me realised, yang i can still love him after kawin. kire tak semestinya skrg tak cinta, after kawin pun tetap tak cinta. i terlupa tentang tu.
n terlupa gak, cinta before kawin bukan cinta abadi..cinta after kawin yang sebenarnye ye.. cinta yg dapat pahala, n yg mulia di sisi Allah kan.
btl tu, if we love a man more than he love us, he can easily take things for granted. but we as women, ada lower probability gi cari laki lain ke, tak jaga kebajikan dia ke after kawin. ppuan pun hati cepat lembut, who knows after kawin, diselebungi kasih sayang, i love him pastu...
thanks siti! i know ur advice salu yg paling best T__T
wa menarik lah discussion korang nih and sue sowy i nyebok ek siap baca kat blog sue lagi ape kate titut...
but i do agree with both sue and titut said... wat sue said base on orang yang dalam situasi not sure dan belom kawin dan titut pulak base on her own experience...
as for me (hehhe orang tak tanye pon kan) macam titut kate kawin is all about tanggungjawab dan pengorbanan then baru LOVE. but above of all wajib agama.. anything problem bungkus cantek2 serahkan pada Allah.
sebelom di ikat pertunangan sue fight dengan ur own feeling tapi bile dah ikat nanti sue kena lebih kuat lagi sebab dalam tempoh bertunang tu kite akan berlawan dengan persekitaran kite pulak... believe it or not time dah bertunang tu lah sebuk orang tu orang ni suka kat kite.. masa ni baru betol-betol nguji kite! parents or family both side insyaAllah dah tak banyak hal sangat sebab diorang dah release masa sue bertunang.nanti dah bertunang sue kena minta nasehat lain pulak tau kat titut... ada cabaran lain pulak time tu.. huhuhu
tak semua orang kawin dengan their true love... sebab kawin is to complete each other. mungkin kite prefer lover yang banyak persamaan dengan kite tapi kawen nanti kite perlukan husband yang ada apa yang kite takdek...
no worries sue cause rite now sue is just going through same phase as me and titut been through before and everything gonna be ok.
titut ko men futsal kat ner ek? cam menarik jer ...
The long overdue Pulau Tioman. We planned it for Mac 2021. Found an affordable place, next to the beach, Seaview and so on. But couldn't, cause of the PKP. Until the government release the state restrictions, so off we went! We went to PD on the 15th. Because i have to attend a Seminar. Stayed there for 2 nights. On the 2nd night, on the 17th, we check out and drive to Tg Gemok, Rompin, Pahang. Arrived at 5am. Couple of short stops to sleep. Me not driving. First few stop until around 3am I managed not to sleep. Accompanying my husband. But suddenly I buzzed off and its 5am and we safely reached Tg Gemok hehehe. 6am we went for Subuh's Prayer at nearby Mosque. Wait outside Jetty there for a while, bought some food. 730am. We went inside Jetty area. Parked our car, registered and did saliva test for 5 of us except Aisha. All negative. Alhamdulillah and wait inside until time for Ferry to Pulau Tioman. Had a simple breakfast. Karipap and waffles. The kids were behaving just fin
Ok kalu meriba tak salah. Kalu seksi tak salah asalkan tak telanjang. Kalu meraba pn tak salah kot asalkan pakai bj and di depan khalayak? Ni bkn remaja bwh umo.. Ni mak bapak remaja... See for yourself, what say you?
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ada org nak masuk merisik n tunang sue end of this year...
how do u know that in future u will not find someone else yg maybe ur mr right?
i da wat solat istikarah, tapi tak de petunjuk. n i da penah wat mcm u wat gak, tinggalkan dia terkontang kanting 1 months ++ , and he still wait for me..
but i dunno whether i truly love him or not. maybe syg, more macam kawan gitu :((( dia sangat baik la.. i dunno if i leave him i can find someone as good and kind as him..
tapi i dunno gak if in future mr right will come.. owh i sound really selfish.
but i have heard someone said it is better to be with someone that love u than to be with someone u love although it might sound selfish but it is the best.
yeah it really helps me a lot.
actually i always think that i still have feelings to my first love yg da break 3thn ++ lepas.. lama gila da break, tapi tak mudah nak lupa
that's why i feel takut? unsure? tatau dapat bahagia ke tak if i dun love him as much as i love my first bf.
bila da tunang i mesti terikat. takkan senang2 nak break. n org takkan kacau da. n of coz la nak jaga nama family. tu i ragu2 nak tunang ke tak.
u penah tak dengar org kata kita kene accept org yg 1st masuk merisik kita? ada dlm agama ke?
rasa macam penah baca di mana2..
u made me realised, yang i can still love him after kawin. kire tak semestinya skrg tak cinta, after kawin pun tetap tak cinta. i terlupa tentang tu.
n terlupa gak, cinta before kawin bukan cinta abadi..cinta after kawin yang sebenarnye ye..
cinta yg dapat pahala, n yg mulia di sisi Allah kan.
btl tu, if we love a man more than he love us, he can easily take things for granted. but we as women, ada lower probability gi cari laki lain ke, tak jaga kebajikan dia ke after kawin. ppuan pun hati cepat lembut, who knows after kawin, diselebungi kasih sayang, i love him pastu...
thanks siti! i know ur advice salu yg paling best T__T
but i do agree with both sue and titut said... wat sue said base on orang yang dalam situasi not sure dan belom kawin dan titut pulak base on her own experience...
as for me (hehhe orang tak tanye pon kan) macam titut kate kawin is all about tanggungjawab dan pengorbanan then baru LOVE. but above of all wajib agama.. anything problem bungkus cantek2 serahkan pada Allah.
sebelom di ikat pertunangan sue fight dengan ur own feeling tapi bile dah ikat nanti sue kena lebih kuat lagi sebab dalam tempoh bertunang tu kite akan berlawan dengan persekitaran kite pulak... believe it or not time dah bertunang tu lah sebuk orang tu orang ni suka kat kite.. masa ni baru betol-betol nguji kite! parents or family both side insyaAllah dah tak banyak hal sangat sebab diorang dah release masa sue bertunang.nanti dah bertunang sue kena minta nasehat lain pulak tau kat titut... ada cabaran lain pulak time tu.. huhuhu
tak semua orang kawin dengan their true love... sebab kawin is to complete each other. mungkin kite prefer lover yang banyak persamaan dengan kite tapi kawen nanti kite perlukan husband yang ada apa yang kite takdek...
no worries sue cause rite now sue is just going through same phase as me and titut been through before and everything gonna be ok.
titut ko men futsal kat ner ek? cam menarik jer ...