ct, nak minta opinion. u tinggal comment kat chat box i n delete yg ne if u takut hubby u tanya.
ada org nak masuk merisik n tunang sue end of this year...
how do u know that in future u will not find someone else yg maybe ur mr right?
i da wat solat istikarah, tapi tak de petunjuk. n i da penah wat mcm u wat gak, tinggalkan dia terkontang kanting 1 months ++ , and he still wait for me..
but i dunno whether i truly love him or not. maybe syg, more macam kawan gitu :((( dia sangat baik la.. i dunno if i leave him i can find someone as good and kind as him..
tapi i dunno gak if in future mr right will come.. owh i sound really selfish.
but i have heard someone said it is better to be with someone that love u than to be with someone u love although it might sound selfish but it is the best.
actually i always think that i still have feelings to my first love yg da break 3thn ++ lepas.. lama gila da break, tapi tak mudah nak lupa that's why i feel takut? unsure? tatau dapat bahagia ke tak if i dun love him as much as i love my first bf.
bila da tunang i mesti terikat. takkan senang2 nak break. n org takkan kacau da. n of coz la nak jaga nama family. tu i ragu2 nak tunang ke tak.
u penah tak dengar org kata kita kene accept org yg 1st masuk merisik kita? ada dlm agama ke? rasa macam penah baca di mana2..
u made me realised, yang i can still love him after kawin. kire tak semestinya skrg tak cinta, after kawin pun tetap tak cinta. i terlupa tentang tu.
n terlupa gak, cinta before kawin bukan cinta abadi..cinta after kawin yang sebenarnye ye.. cinta yg dapat pahala, n yg mulia di sisi Allah kan.
btl tu, if we love a man more than he love us, he can easily take things for granted. but we as women, ada lower probability gi cari laki lain ke, tak jaga kebajikan dia ke after kawin. ppuan pun hati cepat lembut, who knows after kawin, diselebungi kasih sayang, i love him pastu...
thanks siti! i know ur advice salu yg paling best T__T
wa menarik lah discussion korang nih and sue sowy i nyebok ek siap baca kat blog sue lagi ape kate titut...
but i do agree with both sue and titut said... wat sue said base on orang yang dalam situasi not sure dan belom kawin dan titut pulak base on her own experience...
as for me (hehhe orang tak tanye pon kan) macam titut kate kawin is all about tanggungjawab dan pengorbanan then baru LOVE. but above of all wajib agama.. anything problem bungkus cantek2 serahkan pada Allah.
sebelom di ikat pertunangan sue fight dengan ur own feeling tapi bile dah ikat nanti sue kena lebih kuat lagi sebab dalam tempoh bertunang tu kite akan berlawan dengan persekitaran kite pulak... believe it or not time dah bertunang tu lah sebuk orang tu orang ni suka kat kite.. masa ni baru betol-betol nguji kite! parents or family both side insyaAllah dah tak banyak hal sangat sebab diorang dah release masa sue bertunang.nanti dah bertunang sue kena minta nasehat lain pulak tau kat titut... ada cabaran lain pulak time tu.. huhuhu
tak semua orang kawin dengan their true love... sebab kawin is to complete each other. mungkin kite prefer lover yang banyak persamaan dengan kite tapi kawen nanti kite perlukan husband yang ada apa yang kite takdek...
no worries sue cause rite now sue is just going through same phase as me and titut been through before and everything gonna be ok.
titut ko men futsal kat ner ek? cam menarik jer ...
Another 7 hari before birthday Ammar. Celebration with friends on 14.11 ni kat sekolah kebangsaan. So ok la tu, mama bg kek 1. Malam td, lepas dinner kt luar, balik rumah, mama terus naik atas, proses baju nak gosok. Nak pastikan gosok semua, so senang nk menghadapi hari2 mendatang. Washing Machine masuk bengkel. Tak rosak teruk, tapi sebelum teruk, abah decide hantar bengkel. Macam kereta jugak ek washing machine nih huhuhhu. Sebenarnya washing machine ni sgt reliable, tapi capacity dia yang tak reliable untuk menampung keluarga kami. I told you so En. Shahrun Hisam! We need bigger loads! Tapi tak apa, kita cuba fix in, di samping, pelan nak tambah anak terpaksa digugurkan. Kesian machine tuh. Senak weih! Hahahahaha.... So as for now, Abah akan ke laundy mate 2 hari sekali. Datang weekend, 4 loads of baju! RM20 tukar coins pun tak ckp. *sigh*.... SO, sebenarnya nak cerita malam tadi. Semua orang dah ready masuk tidur, tiba-tiba Aisha shouted out. NAK NUGGET! Aisha lapar at 10.45pm!. ...
Ok kalu meriba tak salah. Kalu seksi tak salah asalkan tak telanjang. Kalu meraba pn tak salah kot asalkan pakai bj and di depan khalayak? Ni bkn remaja bwh umo.. Ni mak bapak remaja... See for yourself, what say you?
7:00pm 3rd August 2010 : Arrived at KL Central 7:30pm : Arrived at KLIA via KLIA Express 11:30pm : On Board on flight KE 672 to Korea, was delayed for half an hour because somebody left something outside. So the pilot have to wait. Silly but amazing because i dont know they waited for something like that? :D All are Malaysian time. Malaysian time is 1 hour later than Korean. Malaysian is +8 and Korean is +9. 6:58am 4th August 2010 : Arrived at Incheon Airport Seoul Korea 8:15am : Updating blog for dear Husband and Friends. Now, the time is Korean time. It's 7:15 in Malaysia! Missed my kids and hubby........ Can't wait for 3 weeks time to end. End of update. Now is waiting for a Karzastan Participant to arrive. Is tuning myself to speak English. ;p..... Lantaklah kalau ada salah eja. Terimalah serangkap pantun. Kalau ada sumur di ladang Bolehlah saya menumpang mandi ...
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ada org nak masuk merisik n tunang sue end of this year...
how do u know that in future u will not find someone else yg maybe ur mr right?
i da wat solat istikarah, tapi tak de petunjuk. n i da penah wat mcm u wat gak, tinggalkan dia terkontang kanting 1 months ++ , and he still wait for me..
but i dunno whether i truly love him or not. maybe syg, more macam kawan gitu :((( dia sangat baik la.. i dunno if i leave him i can find someone as good and kind as him..
tapi i dunno gak if in future mr right will come.. owh i sound really selfish.
but i have heard someone said it is better to be with someone that love u than to be with someone u love although it might sound selfish but it is the best.
yeah it really helps me a lot.
actually i always think that i still have feelings to my first love yg da break 3thn ++ lepas.. lama gila da break, tapi tak mudah nak lupa
that's why i feel takut? unsure? tatau dapat bahagia ke tak if i dun love him as much as i love my first bf.
bila da tunang i mesti terikat. takkan senang2 nak break. n org takkan kacau da. n of coz la nak jaga nama family. tu i ragu2 nak tunang ke tak.
u penah tak dengar org kata kita kene accept org yg 1st masuk merisik kita? ada dlm agama ke?
rasa macam penah baca di mana2..
u made me realised, yang i can still love him after kawin. kire tak semestinya skrg tak cinta, after kawin pun tetap tak cinta. i terlupa tentang tu.
n terlupa gak, cinta before kawin bukan cinta abadi..cinta after kawin yang sebenarnye ye..
cinta yg dapat pahala, n yg mulia di sisi Allah kan.
btl tu, if we love a man more than he love us, he can easily take things for granted. but we as women, ada lower probability gi cari laki lain ke, tak jaga kebajikan dia ke after kawin. ppuan pun hati cepat lembut, who knows after kawin, diselebungi kasih sayang, i love him pastu...
thanks siti! i know ur advice salu yg paling best T__T
but i do agree with both sue and titut said... wat sue said base on orang yang dalam situasi not sure dan belom kawin dan titut pulak base on her own experience...
as for me (hehhe orang tak tanye pon kan) macam titut kate kawin is all about tanggungjawab dan pengorbanan then baru LOVE. but above of all wajib agama.. anything problem bungkus cantek2 serahkan pada Allah.
sebelom di ikat pertunangan sue fight dengan ur own feeling tapi bile dah ikat nanti sue kena lebih kuat lagi sebab dalam tempoh bertunang tu kite akan berlawan dengan persekitaran kite pulak... believe it or not time dah bertunang tu lah sebuk orang tu orang ni suka kat kite.. masa ni baru betol-betol nguji kite! parents or family both side insyaAllah dah tak banyak hal sangat sebab diorang dah release masa sue bertunang.nanti dah bertunang sue kena minta nasehat lain pulak tau kat titut... ada cabaran lain pulak time tu.. huhuhu
tak semua orang kawin dengan their true love... sebab kawin is to complete each other. mungkin kite prefer lover yang banyak persamaan dengan kite tapi kawen nanti kite perlukan husband yang ada apa yang kite takdek...
no worries sue cause rite now sue is just going through same phase as me and titut been through before and everything gonna be ok.
titut ko men futsal kat ner ek? cam menarik jer ...